The first thing you should
know is that she is not available right now and that is why she gave you such a
response.
She told you she would let
you know when she is free because right now she is busy handling other issues.
It’s also possible that she
is pushing you away since she doesn’t want to go out with you.
Without wasting time, let me
share what you need to know about what she said before you jump to any
conclusions.
What does it mean when a girl says she will let you know when she is free?
When a girl says she will
let you know when she is free it means she is not available for the moment you
have asked her out, but she will tell you when she is available. She will get
in touch with you whenever she has free time on her end.
If you asked her out or you
wanted to hang out with her, just know that for now, she can’t do it.
It can be that she is busy
working on something important in her life or there are other things she is
dealing with right now.
She doesn’t have the time to
go out with you or hang out with you.
Does it truly mean she has
no time to go out with you?
If you are questioning her
response when you ask her out, there are several things you need to observe.
Does she look like she is interested in going out with you?
Did she tell you that because she just didn’t
want to hurt your feelings?
What you need to know is
that when a girl tells you that she will let you know when she is free, and
this has been happening multiple times when you asked her out, this should let
you know that she doesn’t want to go out with you.
If it’s not the first time
you have asked her out and she is always giving you the same response, it’s
true that she doesn’t want to go out or spend time with you.
She tells you that she will
let you know when she is free just to keep your head high but the truth is that
she is not interested in going out with you.
But if it’s the first
time you have asked her out and she said she will let you know when she is
free, it’s a good sign.
It means she is considering
going out with you and that is why she told you that.
There is a chance that she
will go out with you. Right now she is busy, she didn’t expect you to ask her
out.
She is telling you that she
will let you know when she is free so that you can plan out your date.
You also have to know that
when a girl says she will let you know when she is free, it doesn’t necessarily
mean that she will be willing to go out with you when she is free.
It can be that you have
asked her out on a coffee date, and she said she will let you know when she is
free.
She hasn’t said she will go
with you on that coffee date that you proposed to her.
Don’t keep your expectations
too high. You have to be open-minded that she might either say yes to the date
you asked her out on or no.
She said she would let you
know when she is free so that you can talk and plan your date.
If she is truly occupied and
she told you that she will let you know when she is free and she is looking
forward to going out on a date with you, she will get in touch with you when she
is available.
Now that, that is out of the way, what should you do and say when a girl says she will let you know when she is free?
This is what to say when a
girl says she will let you know when she is free;
- No worries, I will be waiting to hear from you.
- I can’t wait for that day!
- I have high hopes you will.
- I look forward to that.
- I am super excited about that, let me know soon.
- I will be waiting for you to let me know.
- As soon as you can!
When a girl says she will
let you know when she is free you should respond to her letting her know that
you are patient enough.
Let her know that you are
okay with her checking out her schedule so that she will let you know when she is
available.
Don’t respond to her in a way
that will put her under pressure or imply that you want her to give you an answer soon.
For instance, if she says she
will let you know when she is free, and you reply to her like this;
- I want to see you today, I can’t wait.
- I know you are available today, why don’t we go out.
- When will you let me know you are available?
When you respond to her like
this she will feel that you are pressuring her to go out with you.
This is something that will
turn her off, and she might not even accept your request.
The worst is that she might
end up thinking that you don’t have good intentions with her at all.
Which might end up making
her feel uncomfortable around you; she will not want to go out with someone
like you.
Don’t put her in a position
where she will feel that you are forcing her to go out with you.
Let her know that she can
take her time to think about it and let you know when she is available.
She said she will let me know when she is free but never did
If she said she will let you
know when she is free but she never did it’s because she didn’t want to go out
with you in the first place or she completely forgot about it.
She never let you know
because she doesn’t want you to bother her.
Talking about her schedule
with you will only make you pursue her harder.
She doesn’t have time for
you at all.
And that is why she never
told you about anything when she said she would let you know when she is free.
Or she doesn’t want to go
out with you at all, she thinks that keeping silent about it will make you
forget about it.
She knew telling you that
she was not willing to go out with you would only hurt your feelings.
Conclusion
When a girl says she will
let you know when she is free and she is taking longer than you expected her
to, don’t be afraid to remind her about it.
Let her know that you are
still waiting for her to let you know when she will be available.
If she truly forgot about
it, she will express how sorry she is to keep you waiting and she will give you the answer you would like to hear.
But if she doesn’t want to
go out with you, she will let you know too.
Don’t push her when she says
she will let you know when she is free. Give her time and she will get back to
you when she is available.
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