If A Girl Says She Has A Boyfriend Is That A Total Rejection?

If a girl says she has a boyfriend is that a total rejection? Is there a chance for you to win her after she has told you that she has someone?

When a girl tells you that she has a boyfriend it doesn’t mean that she has rejected you.

There are girls out there who have their boyfriends but end up leaving them for someone else.

In this article, I will share with you something that will change your perspective when it comes to approaching girls.

Before I go deeper, let me first answer your question that brought you to this article.

If a girl says she has a boyfriend it’s not a total rejection because you haven’t expressed your feelings to her. She has only told you about her relationship status.

But if you have expressed your feelings to her and she says that she has a boyfriend, she is telling you that you can’t have a chance because it’s occupied by someone else.

There are two sides to the coin here, the first part is that you have expressed your feelings to her and the other is that you haven’t at all.

Let me start sharing with you the first case so that you can understand how you can navigate this situation.

When a girl says she has a boyfriend yet you have expressed your feelings to her, it’s when you are getting to know each other you shouldn’t be worried about that.

She told you that she has someone in her life but it doesn’t mean that she won’t consider what you will have to say to her.

The fact that she has told you that she has a boyfriend doesn’t mean that she has rejected you.

So, if you haven’t expressed your feelings don’t worry about her relationship status.

She hasn’t rejected you, until she does, you are going to be playing your game with her.

It can be that she told you she has a boyfriend just to scare you off. 

You never know if the dude she is dating doesn’t make her happy.

But most girls don’t want to reveal this to someone they aren’t that comfortable with.

When a girl tells you that she has a boyfriend don’t conclude that she won’t need anything with you until she says so.

What you have to do is just shoot your shot and see how she will respond.

You might be surprised that she might end up giving in even though she told you that she has a boyfriend.

So, if she says she has a boyfriend don’t let that scare you off from her.

If you are interested in her, get to know her, get closer to her and show her the interesting part of you, and let her know who you are.

As she gets to know you it’s when she will start to determine if you are someone she can consider keeping in her life.

If it turns out that you are better than the boyfriend she is talking about, she will give you more attention than him.

This is when you will have a chance to turn things around because she will be spending more time with you than her boyfriend.

When she gets more comfortable around you, she will start opening up about her relationship.

Listen carefully to what she will be saying about her relationship.

She will mention the strengths and weaknesses of her relationship with her boyfriend.

Note the weaknesses in that relationship and think of a way you can exploit them.

If you will manage to show her that you can be better than the guy she is dating right now she might leave him for you.

Girls can change their minds about the guys they are dating. When she observes that you can make her happier than the guy she is dating, she will give you a shot.

So, when a girl says that she has a boyfriend that is not a total rejection if you haven’t tried your shot with her.

Now, let me talk about the second part of this; the part that you got closer to her, she knows you better and you ended up expressing your feelings to her.

The answer she gave you is that she has a boyfriend.

If you have expressed your feelings to her and she says that she has a boyfriend and she pulls away from you, it means she can’t give you a chance because someone else owns her.

She is pulling herself away from you because she loves her boyfriend. Getting closer to you will only destroy her relationship.

The response she gave you is that she has a boyfriend. She didn’t say that she doesn’t love you or feel you.

There is a possibility that she has feelings for you but it’s hard for her to leave her current boyfriend for you.

Their relationship foundation is stronger and that is why she can’t let you in.

That is for now, but in the future when her relationship is shaking you might have a shot with her.

Right now, she can’t be with you because she has a boyfriend.

She is rejecting you since she has someone else but if she was single she could have given you a chance.

When she says that she has a boyfriend after you have expressed your feelings but she doesn’t distance herself from you, keep pursuing what you have with her.

There is a chance that she will let you connect with her. If she wanted nothing to do with you because she has someone else she could have distanced herself from you when she knew you wanted more than friendship with her.

But if she says she has a boyfriend but keeps bringing herself closer to you, try to explore with her gently and see how things will work out.

A girl can say that she has no feelings for you because she has someone else but acts like she does.

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A girl can tell you something but act differently from what she says.

Women are that complicated and when you think you understand them, that is when you are totally lost.

She might tell you that she has a boyfriend but she will keep texting, calling and even asking to hang out with you alone.

Ask yourself, what is she seeking if she doesn’t want you to explore your options with her?

Conclusion

When a girl says that she has a boyfriend it doesn’t mean that it’s a total rejection. You can still turn things around if you keep pursuing her.

As long as she doesn’t pull away even after telling you that she has a boyfriend keep pushing it until she tells you to stop.

A girl can tell you that she has a boyfriend just to see if you are truly into her.

Some girls will tell you that they have someone in their lives yet they don’t. They want to see if you can fight for them or not.

Others will tell you that they have boyfriends just to scare you off from making your move on them.

So, when a girl says that she has a boyfriend yet you haven’t expressed your feelings to her, don’t pull away unless she clearly shows you that she isn’t interested in you.

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