She Says She Doesn’t Have Feelings For Me But Acts Like She Does

In this article, I will share what you should do about this situation that she is putting you through.

It’s a total confusion; she is trying to mess up with your head to just throw you out of your game.

There are several things I will share with you that you can do to change the situation.

But first, let me share why she says she doesn’t have feelings for you but acts like she does.

When a girl says she doesn’t have feelings for you but acts like she does it’s only because she is afraid to admit it to you how she feels about you. She has feelings for you but telling you the truth makes her feel vulnerable.

It can be that she is afraid you will hurt her feelings when she says she has feelings for you.

How will you feel when you express your feelings to a girl and then she says that she doesn’t feel the same for you?

It will hurt you.

It’s the same issue with her, she says she doesn’t have feelings for you but acts like she does because she is just afraid to admit it.

She is afraid that when she admits that she has feelings for you the response you are going to give her won’t be what she wants to hear.

She doesn’t know if you are also interested in her or not. And that is why she says she doesn’t have feelings for you.

This is what makes her keep saying she doesn’t have feelings for you.

This girl is afraid to face the reality side of things. She is hiding in the coat of friendship because she is afraid of what you feel about her.

In another case; if she says she doesn’t have feelings for you but acts like she does, it’s because she just wants you to keep guessing what she feels about you.

She wants to confuse you to spend hours thinking about how she feels about you.

She doesn’t want you to be sure how she feels about you and that is why what comes from her mouth is different from what comes from her actions.

It’s possible that she says she doesn’t have feelings for you just to see how you are going to handle her.

She wants to see if you are going to push her away when she says she doesn’t have feelings for you or if you will still embrace her.

The part of her acting like she does, it’s what helps her to gather her data before she decides what she is going to do about you.

So, what should you do when a girl says she has no feelings for you but acts like she does?

Don’t worry, there are several things you can do if she puts you in this situation.

 

This is what to do when she says she has no feelings for you but acts like she does;

1. Observe what she does and not what she says.

She says she doesn’t have feelings for you but acts like she does? The first thing you have to do is forget what she says.

What she talks about isn’t solid compared to what she does when she is around you.

Her actions say a lot compared to her words.

As I told you earlier, it can be that she is afraid to admit that she is into you.

What you need to know is that most women are shy; it will be hard for them to express their feelings to guys they adore.

She says she doesn’t have feelings for you because she is afraid to start expressing what she has been feeling for you for a while.

The part of her pouring everything down for you is what she is avoiding by not telling you the truth about how she feels about you.

What you can do right now is just forget about what she says.

You will not date the empty words from her.

If she acts like she has feelings for you, focus on how she handles you.

Look at how she talks to you and handles herself when she is around you.

If she is flirty, go along with it. If she wants you to go over to her place and spend some hours watching some movies together, get into it and compliment what she does.

This is what will get you where you want to be.

You have to go with the flow right now, don’t listen to whatever comes from her mouth.

If she truly doesn’t have feelings for you, when she notices that you are also going with the vibe she is giving you she will pull away.

But if she is not interested in you she will tell you the truth when you get hard on her the moment she acts romantic and flirty around you.

This is just the beginning.

 

2. Show her that you are interested in her.

If you haven’t expressed what you feel for her, this is the time for you to kick it.

You have to let her know how you feel about her. She says she doesn’t have feelings for you because she doesn’t know how you feel about her.

It can be that she wants you to admit that you have feelings for her before she admits it too.

So, if you haven’t said to her that you want to be with her, it’s time for you to do it.

Let her know that you are interested in her.

If she still says she doesn’t have feelings for you even after you have told her what you feel about her, this is clear that she doesn’t have feelings for you.

She is telling you the truth that she doesn’t have feelings for you, it can be that she only wants a casual thing with you or friends with benefits.

And that is why she is acting like she has feelings for you but she is telling you otherwise.

She knows that when she tells you that she has feelings for you, this will make you think that she wants to date you.

She doesn’t want a relationship with you, she only wants to have fun with you.

 

3. Make her jealous by hanging out with other girls.

If she says she doesn’t have feelings for you this is something else you can do.

You need her to tell you the truth about how she feels about you.

If she is truly interested in you she will let you know when you put her in a tough spot.

When you make her jealous by hanging out with other girls, it will hurt her.

She will start thinking of what she said to you.

And this might even make her change her statement to you. You are not giving her the attention anymore.

You are showing her that if she isn’t interested in you other girls are.

When you pay attention to other girls, flirt with them, and spend most of your time with them while she is watching you from afar, she will end up opening up to you about how she feels about you.

Trust me, she will get mad at you first, but she will come over and let you know the truth about how she feels about you.

This is what you should do if she says she doesn’t have feelings for you but acts like she does.

Make her jealous, it will hurt her and she will tell you the truth about how she feels about you.

If she is truly not interested in you what you will do with other girls won’t bother her at all.

She will even get busy with what she is doing and forget that you even exist.

 

4. Ask her to be honest about how she feels about you.

If you have been spending your time with other girls trying to make her jealous and she comes over to you while angry, this is the moment you have to use to make her spill the truth.

When she comes to you angry because you have been busy with other girls, it’s when you have to ask her to be honest about how she feels about you.

Let her know that you realized that she doesn’t have feelings for you because of what she said to you and you decided to find another option.

Tell her that you wouldn’t stick around waiting for her to feel you yet there are other girls who can consider how you feel for them. 

Ask her to tell you the truth if she wants you to stop hanging out with other girls.

That is if she comes to you angry. Some girls will avoid you when you focus on other girls so that they don't get their feelings hurt.

They will move far away from you and keep themselves busy not seeing what you are doing.

In this case, you will have to approach her. Sit down with her and ask her to be honest about how she feels about you.

Let her know that the way she handles you suggests something different from what she says.

If she doesn’t know that how she handles you says a different thing from what she says, she will start changing how she handles you.

But if she truly has feelings for you and she is aware that she acts romantic and flirty in front of you, she will tell you the truth about it.

 

5. Make your decision according to how she is going to respond.

If she continues to say that she doesn’t have feelings for you yet she still acts like she does even after asking her to be honest with you about how she feels, you will have to make up your mind about her.

You have to decide if she is someone you want to be around or not.

If she wants a casual relationship with you, can you give her what she wants or not?

If she wants friends with benefits, are you up for that?

This is your decision to make, if she shows you that she wants something more with you yet she says she doesn’t have feelings for you.

You can hit her, what she says to you doesn’t matter at all. 

But the point that she hasn’t made it clear how she feels about you is what will keep a big question mark on what you are doing with her.

It’s not a relationship because she hasn’t been clear about it.

If you get attached, you are going to be hurt one day when things between the two of you don’t align.

Like when you want something serious with her yet she is not on the same page with you.

She will just let you hang and hurt.

Unless she makes it clear that she wants a serious relationship with you, just have fun with her as long as she allows it.

This is what you should do when she says she doesn’t have feelings for you but acts like she does.

Conclusion 

When she says she doesn’t have feelings for you but acts like she does, you just have to be honest with her if you don’t want any of her games.

Let her know that you won’t be part of what she is doing if she doesn’t want to be honest.

There is no need for you to be closer to her if she is unclear about what she wants from you.

But if she acts romantic around, she allows you to get all in and this is something you like and enjoy, keep it going.

Don’t care about what she says but don’t get attached to her. She might not give you what you want because you may not be on the same page.

 

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